Dunn’s River Falls: My Jamaican Vacation

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Climbing Dunn's River Falls

 

 

 

Majestic and Beautiful, Dunn’s River Falls is one of Jamaica’s premier attractions.

What you see here is a group of tourists climbing the nearly 1000 foot incline of the falls.

We are part of the group who made the climb during our Jamaican Vacation.  And, even though the rain didn’t cooperate, it was a magical experience — in part because it’s an accomplishment to make the difficult and slippery climb.

We started our Dunn’s River Falls trip aboard a catamaran at Sandals Grand in Ocho Rios, which is also home to the Cool Runnings attraction, named for the historical Jamaican Bobsled that inspired the movie by the same name.

I’m not sure what I expected from the trip, but my imagination never dreamed of walking THROUGH the waterfall.  I guess I imagined a large waterfall, maybe a small version of Niagara Falls.  When they spoke of climbing the falls, I imagined a path leading up to this majestic waterfall.  I never imagined we would link hands in a human chain and snake our way up the MIDDLE of the falls — climbing on rocks and through little lagoons.

At a VERY generous 40 something, I was the oldest person in our group.  Despite a few falls and some good catches by the folks behind me I MADE IT TO THE TOP!!! Of course, I was really sore the next day — especially my feet which had stone bruises.  But, I’m glad I did it if only to prove I still can.

Part of our day included a stop for snorkeling before getting to the falls.  They anchored the “cat” along a reef and we had a great swim.  I’ve snorkeled lots of places in the Caribbean — Grand Caymans, Florida Keys, Aruba, St, Thomas … — and this is one of the best snorkeling spots.  Lots of fish swim near the reef, which is shallow enough you get to see them up-close.  The reef itself is spectacular for the variety of coral it contains.  Don’t touch the coral, as it damages structures that take a long time to replace and you get a very nasty cut.

On the trip back aboard the “cat”, we had lunch and it started to rain in buckets.  During the trip, you almost couldn’t see the water in front of the boat, which pitched in every direction.  Our group mainly stayed below, but a few hardy folk braved the rain and spray.  After all, we were already wet, so what damage could a little rain and saltwater do?

A few deck hands stayed on deck with us — maybe to ensure we didn’t fall overboard.  We danced and even the worst dancers didn’t stand out as we all struggled to stay on our feet.  Copious amount of alcohol  — much of it shots straight into our mouths — didn’t help matters any.  By the time we docked, everyone was soaked and a little unsteady.  So we stopped at the nearest shelter, which just happened to be a bar.  Several friends on the trip never made it to dinner.

 

 

Vacation Time: Planning a Vacation After 40 (Part 2)

 

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Montego Bay, Jamaica

Last week, we introduced planning a vacation after 40 so today I’d like to finish that topic.

 

Planning a vacation for 2 after 40

Last week I talked mainly about planning a vacation with your kids and/or elderly parents.  Today, I’d like to focus on taking a vacation by yourselves.  This will be the first time I’ve done this since my kids were born.  But, I figure, at 18, 20, and 24, they’re old enough to take care of themselves for an entire week.  I do, however, worry about my dogs, my plants, my good china, and the plumbing.  So, I’ve given them instructions on feeding the dogs — if you’re hungry the dogs probably are too — my plants –water — the good china — don’t touch it — and left the name of a good plumber.  I’ve already mentally prepared myself for a sink of dirty dishes and an inch of dust when I return.  Oh the joys of motherhood!

We’re in Jamaica — through the wonders of scheduling, you’re reading this while we lie on the beach sipping frozen margaritas.  Wish you were here!

Along with the normal challenges of stocking the fridge, leaving instructions for the trash, etc. planning a vacation after 40 brings its own challenges.

 

Challenge # 1 – No Kids

Finding a place that isn’t overrun with kids.  Nothing ruins a romantic dinner faster than a baby crying.  We put up with this when our kids were young, but we shouldn’t have to deal with it now.  I don’t think I even ate a hot meal until my baby turned 3.

I love children, just not at dinner.  I also don’t like having them step all over me on the beach or spilling food on me in the restaurants.  So, finding a couples only resort was a MUST for us.

We chose Sandals in Jamaica — I’ll let you know how it is when I return next week — IF I decide to come back. I’ve been to Club Med before and they’re lovely.  The food is Awesome.  But they can be a little hedonistic and, frankly, I don’t feel I have that much energy this year — its been a bad year.

Challenge # 2 – No Kids

While I’m generally pretty tolerant of kids, I have no tolerance for their older versions — twenty-somethings.  I know we were the same when we were that age — listening to loud music, drinking too much, sleeping until 2 then partying until 2 am.  That’s not my idea of a vacation anymore.  Now, I know many of you will disagree with me, but after working 60 hour weeks — on a good week — I just need to relax.  And, I’ve never been a late night person.  I’m up by 8 every morning without an alarm clock — usually more like 6.

The other things I’m not crazy about is honeymooners.  We enjoy meeting people on vacation and have some really good friends we’ve met that way.  Its hard to do that when everyone is spending the trip in their rooms.

Challenge #3 – What Will We Talk About

After a couple has been together a while, sometimes conversations become functional — who’s driving carpool to rehearsal? Did you pick up the laundry? What should we do about X? We don’t have the same conversations we had when we first met — what do you like to do?  Who is your favorite band?

In our case, it’s even more challenging because we work together.  Much of our conversation centers around running the business — meeting deadlines, discussing strategy, reporting results ….

Sometimes I feel like that couple in the movies where they’re sitting at dinner with nothing but silence stretching before them.

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Montego Bay, Jamaica

When I’m planning a vacation, I try to have some organized activities planned.  This means we’re guaranteed to have something to discuss over dinner — the beautiful fish we saw while snorkeling or how we felt when we climbed to the waterfall.  It not only fills the void, but helps us connect at a deeper level.

Challenge #4 – Location

Now, this might not matter to you, but I travel enough.  I don’t want to spend half my vacation in the airport or on a plane and I certainly don’t want to drive.  So, I was looking for a place reasonably close with good air service — that way if they canceled our flight, we wouldn’t be stuck for days waiting for the next empty seat.

Besides, I like Jamaica.  It’s hot, but the water is blue and the flowers are vibrant.  The people are really friendly, too.

I guess the biggest issue is planning a vacation after 40 is different, not only because you don’t have your kids with you, but because our lives are different after 40.  We have so many responsibilities between kids, jobs, parents, homes, pets …. Vacation needs to be a time to relax, explore new vistas, and get to know each other again.

What are your goals in planning a vacation this year? Where will you go? Who will go with you?  What are your challenges?